Tuesday, November 20, 2012

Going Naked!




Wearing proper dress helps you conceal not just the body but also sometimes your mind!
Yes, it is said that wearing the proper attire, which is matching the situation, helps in projecting the proper image about a person.

But then, there are many people who actually strip publicly!!!! 

I mean, why do people go naked in public, without considering that they are actually making a fool of themselves?!!

OK, Ok, I am still in India and did not go to any foreign land where there are no barriers for body exposure!

My dear, I am talking about the dress you are wearing online. Yes, when you are using the internet through various social networking sites,  chat sites, youtube etc.

Most of the present day internet users do not know how to behave in public and keep posting messages or pictures which is actually harming their personality indirectly. 
Ultimately, their misbehavior affects their career and sometimes, even their life!

Not convinced of what I am talking of? Well, I think, I could collect some proof my dear!

According to a recent research report by the Society for Human Resource Management (SHRM), 76% of companies said that they do use or are planning to use social media sites for recruiting. More than half of the employers responding said that social networking sites are an efficient way to recruit candidates.

65% of the respondents said they look to Facebook, 63% cited LinkedIn, while Twitter was on the radar of only 16% of hiring managers.

That's about career. I do not have any statistics about life spoiled because of wrong online profiles! I  think, it may be quite relevant for marital proposals however!

Well, what made me write about this?

Recently, one of my friends told me about an incident of posting of a comment by a lady friend of his, who used some abusive language about him in public. This friend of mine felt insulted and retorted in an equally abusive language. He couldn’t believe the fact that, this particular lady belonged to a decent family and still could behave like that in public. Probably, even she would have thought the same about him! 

Now, this is what I compared to stripping in public!! Unfortunately, this stripping will stay for longer, unless you hide it yourself !!

Worst of all -  our youth today thinks that its fashionable to use such abusive words or even the “F” words so easily in the internet !! Unfortunate people have the unpleasant experience of reading these horrible language and words, even unintentionally! I am even worried about my children who can be the victims of these language usages even in a much small age.

So, the moral of the story:- Post or write only what your grandmother/mother could see without twisting her eyebrows! Including posting comments in Facebook!

Moreoever, use decent language and gain respect of fellow beings , rather than creating a “yuck, how could he/she say this?!”

Now, coming to anonymous commentors on your facebook profile or your blog or your youtube videos :- May god bless them! Coz, they will be cursed by so many people at the same time. Shame on them!

Take Care Dear !

CeeVee

N.B: If you really want to know how mallus use abusive words never heard before , please view some youtube film of Santhosh Pandit!! You can see the creative use of the language!! LOL.. 

P.S. Photography Copyright – Vinodkumar.T.G. Thankyou Vinod, I couldn’t find a better photo for this article!


Thursday, November 8, 2012

Welcome Sandy!




Last week was the power show by the Sandy- the super storm, which devastated the eastern coast of the world’s powerful nation, USA. Yes, sandy proved once again that however big and powerful man has become, nature is still beyond his control!

Its good to have Sandys once in a while. Wait, wait, don’t jump into conclusions that I am too mean and not considerate about the innocent people who have died.

I am talking about the Sandy within our minds.

Sometimes in life, we need to have some super storms within our minds, which could wash away bad memories, unwanted thoughts, negative energy with just one wipe!

Every person has some incidents, some people, some relationships, some thoughts, some fears, some worries, and some emotional disturbances which may act as a block and pull you from inside. Well, some may have more of that and others only little – depending upon their mental courage and capacity.

One fine day, something happens- just like sandy came.. and hey! You decide to wash out everything of the past! I don’t know whether anyone of you has had this feeling before. But, it gives some kind of a relief to our mind. A Feeling of lightness.

Well, this sandy is nothing but our own decision. When we decide to be free,  we can call in Sandy. But again, not many people will be able to do that either, as they want. That’s what I told, sometimes when it happens on its own, it may be good!

So,Welcome Sandy!

By the way , as I write this post, Mr.Obama has got a second term as the President of America and just as he said “Best Yet to Come!” , I think after every Sandy in our minds,  we can say to ourselves, “Best Yet to come!”

Chao for now!

CeeVee

P.S: BTW, it seems Sandy created some sympathetic waves towards Obama and helped him win this election. Well, in that case, "Welcome Sandy..!" 

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