Wearing proper dress helps you conceal not just the body but
also sometimes your mind!
Yes, it is said that wearing the proper attire, which is
matching the situation, helps in projecting the proper image about a person.
But then, there are many people who actually strip
publicly!!!!
I mean, why do people go naked in public, without considering that
they are actually making a fool of themselves?!!
OK, Ok, I am still in India and did not go to any foreign
land where there are no barriers for body exposure!
My dear, I am talking about the dress you are wearing
online. Yes, when you are using the internet through various social networking
sites, chat sites, youtube etc.
Most of the present day internet users do not know how to
behave in public and keep posting messages or pictures which is actually
harming their personality indirectly.
Ultimately, their misbehavior affects their career and
sometimes, even their life!
Not convinced of what I am talking of? Well, I think, I
could collect some proof my dear!
According to a recent
research report by the Society for Human Resource Management (SHRM), 76% of
companies said that they do use or are planning to use social media sites for
recruiting. More than half of the employers responding said that social
networking sites are an efficient way to recruit candidates.
65% of the respondents
said they look to Facebook, 63% cited LinkedIn, while Twitter was on the radar
of only 16% of hiring managers.
That's about career. I do not have any statistics about life spoiled because of wrong online profiles! I think, it may be quite relevant for marital proposals however!
Well, what made me write about this?
Recently, one of my friends told me about an incident of
posting of a comment by a lady friend of his, who used some abusive language
about him in public. This friend of mine felt insulted and retorted in an
equally abusive language. He couldn’t believe the fact that, this particular
lady belonged to a decent family and still could behave like that in public.
Probably, even she would have thought the same about him!
Now, this is what I compared to stripping in public!! Unfortunately,
this stripping will stay for longer, unless you hide it yourself !!
Worst of all - our
youth today thinks that its fashionable to use such abusive words or even the “F”
words so easily in the internet !! Unfortunate people have the unpleasant
experience of reading these horrible language and words, even unintentionally!
I am even worried about my children who can be the victims of these language usages
even in a much small age.
So, the moral of the story:- Post or write only what your grandmother/mother could see without twisting her eyebrows! Including
posting comments in Facebook!
Moreoever, use decent language and gain respect of fellow
beings , rather than creating a “yuck, how could he/she say this?!”
Now, coming to anonymous commentors on your facebook profile
or your blog or your youtube videos :- May god bless them! Coz, they will be cursed by so many people
at the same time. Shame on them!
Take Care Dear !
CeeVee
N.B: If you really want to know how mallus use abusive words
never heard before , please view some youtube film of Santhosh Pandit!! You can
see the creative use of the language!! LOL..
P.S. Photography Copyright – Vinodkumar.T.G. Thankyou Vinod,
I couldn’t find a better photo for this article!
