Mother's Day Message

 *A girls' honour does not lie in her vagina or body*. 

Many girls are becoming victims of cyber attacks today. Porn menace, morphing , blackmailing etc have become a common affair in the cyber world. Toxic masculinity is spread in many "boys only" ,"men only" chat rooms . 

To all girls and woman out there. Do not feel unworthy because your picture was used by some unscrupulous man in some x-rated site. Your dignity does not get lost there. Its the dignity of men who do such things as well as the ones who watch it /share it that's losing.  

Well, why did I write about this now? Today is Mother's day. I think its also a day to remind that all men are born out of a woman's Vagina and Uterus. 

And men who violate another girl by considering her as a piece of flesh or vagina please understand that you wouldn't have been born if your mother had decided not to. 

One more reason why I write about this today is that yesterday I had an interesting conversation with a friend who shared rising incidents of girls getting trapped via social media by men who claim to be photographers in the name of "photoshoots" . Well, many of the girls  get lured by unscrupulous men who give a free photoshoot coz they find the girl attractive to become a model. They then convince them into nude shoots as well. Well , after that comes the sexual favours and blackmailing.  Dear Girls, Do not accept such photoshoot requests. If you wish to get photoshoot done, choose Women photographers or  men you / parents / friends know well  instead of unknown men. And most importantly, even if your photo gets misused later, never compromise on your dignity and oblige to sexual favours to such men how much ever they blackmail you . Coz , its only a photo that can get shared . But once you accept an unknown man to touch you, then you get shared ! And let me tell you, touch by a man who you don't love is the most repulsive thing that can happen to a girl. 

So, yeah, coming back to today's topic. Dear  Girls, Your honour does not lie in your vagina or any of your body parts. Your honour lies in the way you look at life. In the way you live your life. In the way you respect fellow humans. In the way you are happy! Never allow any man/woman or society to dictate terms and make you feel inferior to anyone just because you are born as a female . 

And Dear Men, before you share that image / video of an unknown girl, think for a moment, if it was your mother will you do it? 

Happy Mother's Day Everyone! 

Cheers and Love 

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